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Unconditional Love is nonsense. ALL relationships are based upon NEED.
Even if you are Of Service to whom all you meet, even if you give Love to everyone you encounter no matter whether they return it of not, even if you are The Most Blessed Saint Ever, somewhere y'all are getting blissed out on that shit...and that is perfectly fine. Such is fulfilling an essential positive need of yours and that's a Good Thing.
But if you've bought into all that Unconditional Love hocus pocus, there is a good chance you'll feel guilty about feeling good for doing good and that's just plain self defeating and self abusive. So cut that shit out and own feeling good about being good. Just don't get fucking smug about it. No one likes that crap. lol
Even if you are Of Service to whom all you meet, even if you give Love to everyone you encounter no matter whether they return it of not, even if you are The Most Blessed Saint Ever, somewhere y'all are getting blissed out on that shit...and that is perfectly fine. Such is fulfilling an essential positive need of yours and that's a Good Thing.
But if you've bought into all that Unconditional Love hocus pocus, there is a good chance you'll feel guilty about feeling good for doing good and that's just plain self defeating and self abusive. So cut that shit out and own feeling good about being good. Just don't get fucking smug about it. No one likes that crap. lol
